Do you know what your 15-year-old is up to? With the advent of cheap cameras and digital editing software combined with the need to share their lives with everyone on every social media network ever to prove how turnt up they are, now you can.

Take, for example, Kiara’s 15th birthday party. This video was filmed, edited and uploaded to show everyone that even freshmen in high school lead more thrilling lives than you. The video has it all. Girls making out, shirtless dudes wearing bowties, middle fingers, twerking, flat brims, cigars, Lil Jon. Everything pop-culture has sold them on is here in one gigantic circle jerk.